Constructively & Defensively

Student Creed Number 3: I intend to use the skills I learn in class constructively and defensively, to help myself and my fellow man, and never to be abusive or offensive.

When I first began training in martial arts and eventually took on a teaching role, I quickly learned that there are two ways to train students. The easiest way is the kind of instruction you see in TV shows like Cobra Kai or in military boot camps: break a person down so they become strong and obedient. No questions asked. You say, “Yes, Sir,” and failure to comply results in push-ups or some other form of demeaning punishment. There is no positive reinforcement, just competition between you and your peers as you aim for the drill sergeant’s approval and try to avoid pain.

This is how I was originally brought up, and honestly, having this type of power felt desirable. But I quickly learned that this type of instruction eventually leads to students burning out and feeling bad about themselves and their training.

Instead, think about Student Creed Number 3 and our goal of being “constructive.” To construct is to build. We want to use our studio to create—to build positive minds, strong bodies, and the leaders of tomorrow. The goal of martial arts is to be “defensive.” We are not looking to tear anyone down, but to protect ourselves and those we love so that tomorrow can be a better and brighter day.

Yes, in martial arts, we learn techniques that can seriously injure a person. Yes, we smash boards and yell loudly. But the way we train (and the way we teach) should always focus on creating, not destroying. Whether we are developing a person’s body or mind, we want them to be more confident in themselves and stronger than they were yesterday. It doesn’t matter if someone is the most talented student in the world or someone who struggles to learn or focus. They are our clay, and it is our job to mold them into the best martial artists—and people—they can be.

Want an activity that builds you up and instills strength and confidence? At Trinity Martial Arts, located in Hopewell Junction, we teach traditional martial arts and practical self-defense skills to students in East Fishkill and the surrounding Hudson Valley. Reach out today to schedule your free trial class and begin your martial arts journey.